Just a thought swinging in my idle devil mind again!!
Two neighbors/friends/strangers are so nice to each other and are willing to share all their personal stuff with each other.On the other hand, why do two own bro's (or any relatives for that matter) find it difficult to even talk to each other?
A gal and guy will be the best lovers of the world, but when they are bounded by Wed-lock, things don't remain the same, they even sometimes cant tolerate each others face.
I am just wondering is it the obligation of the relationship which reduces the depth, love and magnitude of relationship.
why is it that things are so nice till you are not bound by any social relationship?
Is it really difficult to live up any relationship?
why is it that things are so nice till you are not bound by any social relationship?
Is it really difficult to live up any relationship?
Note:sorry for usage of so many "?" :-)
5 comments:
I like to answer difficult questions, but not always in the same order :-)
Is it really difficult to live up any relationship?
> No, the world wouldn't have been a beautiful place to live, had every relationship been strained.
why is it that things are so nice till you are not bound by any social relationship?
> May be the expectations are different when one is not in a formal relationship. People see the goodness in others, appreciate and feel happy about them. Greater expectations bring in greater disappointments. Since the expectations are kept to a low, naturally things are shiny.
I am just wondering is it the obligation of the relationship which reduces the depth, love and magnitude of relationship.
> I think not. What wears out the relationships may be - taking people/things for granted just because one knows them closer and forgetting to respect them.
@realizer:
Thanks for sharing ur thoughts on my thoughts again!!
Truly Nice explanation:)
Depends upon the person.. A couple of factors can be..
1.having a stubborn attitude suggesting or showing that people bound by relations can never go anywhere.. To put it from their stubborn mind, it would be somethin like "Where the heck would she/he go?"
2.Friends can be different, coz they are not bound by any ropes and if they wanna leave you, they would. And to keep the peace, we behave nicely with each other. 1ce the frequency matches, they are our frns forever
P.S: Sometimes relatives become like friends and being nice with us.. That is when united to conquer an enemy
Meeta Jain g...the way you sprayed your views on this topic..I wonder...I have the other way to look into.....Its up to you how you deal.....how you think about it...ordinarily every persona is selfish...and think and relate the relationship and link it to and for their future benefit...which must not be...
But I appreciate your thoughts around..I read many of your writes ....r marvelous..and hope to read more..if God's grace is there...God bless you
Harash
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